You like a guy but you are not sure if he likes you or not and it’s driving you insane. You want to be 100% sure that this guy likes you before you make a move, but what are signs that he really likes you? Thinking of this might give you sleepless nights so I decided to make a short list of signs that will give you understanding and knowledge whether he’s into you or not.
These signs come from a point of view of men and also based on my experiences, so I’m hoping that you find this post helpful. Here are 11 obvious signs a guy likes you deeply.
1. He finds ways just to talk to you.
The first thing to look out for is if he’s eager to talk to you. He finds ways for you to know each other, he text you, email you, he’s even always there liking and commenting on your Facebook post and other social media accounts. But take note, not all guys love phones, emails, and social media sites. Some guys would rather like to talk to you in person.
2. He loves exchanging personal information with you.
He loves talking about your personal life. He wants to know your likes and dislikes, your favorite color, music, food, and of course your birth date, every little thing about you. He also shares his problems with you which clearly shows his trust. This may mean that he wants to take your relationship with him to a deeper level.
3. He discusses your past relationships.
Your conversations with him may take a dip into your past relationships. This indicates that he is making a subtle attempt to see if you’re single or interested in other guys. He may even ask for some advise from you, like dating tips but actually, he just wants to know your dream guy. But If he makes constant attempts to set you up with another boy, it means you’re just in the friend zone.
4. He teases you.
When a guy like someone, he would actually want to make a girl smile, that’s why guys would often initiate to tease you. Playful teasing is a hint that he wishes for you to tease him back. He jokes around with you and if he teases you, it’s the type of teasing that makes you laugh.
5. He compliments you and gives you unexpected gifts even without special occasions.
He often makes complimenting words like sexy, beautiful, gorgeous, lovable and more. Accompanied by those compliments are unexpected gifts. This sign is one of the most noticeable among all. This only means he’s making a foundation for a deeper relationship.
6. He acts differently around you than with other girls.
When a guy likes you he will treat you differently than other girls, whether he’s around you or not. Notice what he does with his friends, it could be like you’re the only girl he teases or hug, the only one he always pays attention or the only girl he’s being sweet to. However, if you notice him teasing and touching every other girl, then he may just be a flirt. So better watch out for this.
7. His behavior and body language say it all.
He will not only treat you differently than others but will also behave differently when his with you. Common signs are being nervous, fidgeting, mirroring or he may be a little flustered and even blushes a bit when you talk to him. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control, remember when you’re in grade school and you blushed in front of your crush? That’s it!
His body language shows what he really feels, like those lovely smiles, he always tries to impress you and most of all he can’t get his eyes out of you. If he holds an eye contact with you for longer than an average person, it’s an obvious cue he’s interested in you. But some guy might make short eye contact when they’re a little bit shy.
8. He touches you.
There’s something precious when you touches the one you like and guys often do this to their crushes. It could be a touch of your hand, shoulder, back, and face or even just a slight touch on your hair and skin. It means a lot to most men who truly like someone. But beware, a flirty touch is different from sexual touch, some guys are just perverts who want to touch you on your sensitive parts. This also excludes when a guy touches you accidentally.
9. He finds ways just to be with you, alone.
If a guy really likes you he will make an effort just to be with you. It could be by joining the same group of peers you have or by asking you to hang out. Eventually, he will initiate to have time with you alone like going to church, shopping and later will ask you for a formal date.
10. He becomes supportive and protective.
He wants to be your knight in a shining armor. You’ll know it when he’s trying to protect you in just simple ways, just like when people are pushing you around in a crowded bar, he’ll position himself in a way that others won’t push you behind. Another good example is when you two are simply walking down the streets, he’ll take the side wherein vehicles are going and put you the safer side, chivalry always takes place. He is also your number one fan, he encourages you and supports you in everything that you do. He’s always there whenever you’re feeling down.
11. He becomes jealous.
Lastly, you may find him jealous sometimes. Jealousy is part of it, guys can’t help it whether they show it or not. Most often a guy who likes you will act differently when you talk about another guy within his presence, especially when you talk about your crush. He might just keep it to himself but you’ll notice a hint of sadness or hurt in his face.
Now that you’re aware of the signs he likes you, what are you waiting for? If you want to add more tips regarding these signs just comment below and let us hear your thoughts.